首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
专升本
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most importan
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most importan
admin
2018-06-22
29
问题
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention, and especially if it’ s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but receive them. Listen to what they’ re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves of our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of simple saying "I’m so sorry" when someone is in pain.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story people often interrupted to tell her that they once had something just like that happening to them. Her pain became a story about themselves. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
I have even learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the handkerchiefs, until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down, to take them out of their experience of sadness. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. But now I know that a loving silence often has far more power to heal than the kindest words.
The woman patient stopped telling her story to most people because______.
选项
A、she didn’ t get enough respect from others
B、she was discouraged by being often interrupted
C、people often told her their own opinions
D、people couldn’ t understand her sad situation
答案
B
解析
事实细节题。从第二段的内容可知,这位女病人之所以不再向别人倾诉是因为她总是被打断。故选B。
转载请注明原文地址:https://jikaoti.com/ti/nIBGFFFM
本试题收录于:
英语题库普高专升本分类
0
英语
普高专升本
相关试题推荐
Everyonehadanapplicationfrominhishand,butnooneknewwhichofficeroom______.
Itisn’toftenthatanentireindustryissymbolizedinthefigureofasinglehumanbeing,andsuchisthecasewithCanadiana
______theirsuggestions,wewilldiscussthemfullyatthenextmeeting.
WhenIwasyounger,Ithoughtthatboysandgrownmenshouldn’tcry.Tearswereasignofbeingweak,【C1】______amanisn’tsuppo
Thereason______heobjectedtotheplanatthemeetingwasthathehadnofaithinus.
Georgecouldnot______hisfoolishmistake.
______cavethatGeorgehasdiscoveredinhislifetimeisneartheAlps.
ItisknowntousthatEnglishisnotasoldasChinese,butitiswidelyusedbymostpeopleallovertheworld.Englishspeake
______suchagoodchance,heplannedtolearnmore.
Ifyouwant______,youhavetogetthefundsomewhere.
随机试题
下列被称为“十二经脉之海”、“血海”的是
心脏病患者拔牙应视为禁忌证的是
中风的西医界定是()。
“李老汉私房菜”是李甲投资开设的个人独资企业。关于该企业遇到的法律问题,下列哪一选项是正确的?()
当年考核被确定为不称职等次的,予以()。
试论我国刑法中数罪并罚制度的特点和适用数罪并罚的条件。
面临环境日益被污染的状况,人类越来越重视环境问题,这是因为()
资产阶级思想与封建主义思想在中国的第一次正面交锋是指
设随机变量X服从n个自由度的t分布,定义tα满足P{X≤tα}=1一d-α(0<α<1).若已知P{|X|>χ}=b(b>0),则χ等于
Groupsororganizationsareanimportantpartofsomepeople’slives.Whydoyouthinkgroupsororganizationsareimportantto
最新回复
(
0
)