In order to keep good friends together, we must, first of all, show respect to each other; there must not be any, however little

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问题     In order to keep good friends together, we must, first of all, show respect to each other; there must not be any, however little, reluctance, interference or dominance involved. Should interest or temperament match, people tend to agree or become friends, or they part company and cease to be friends. You shall never go too far, disregarding manners, no matter what kind of close or intimate friends you are. Otherwise, that state of harmony and balance is sure to be upset and you are no longer friends. Generally, every one of us, as friends, still hopes to have a private room reserved for ourselves. By always having your own ways, you may risk intruding into that forbidden zone, causing conflict or estrangement. Though failing to show respect to friends only seems to be a trifle, it may turn out destructive in the future as if predestined. So the best solution for keeping good friends together is stick to showing manners as you see fit in everyday dealings and never meddle: always show respect to each other, and you’ll enjoy lasting friendship.

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答案 朋友关系的存续是以相互尊重为前提的,容不得半点强求、干涉和把持。彼此之间,情趣相投、性格对味则合、则交;反之,则离、则绝。朋友之间再熟识,再密切,也不能随便过甚,不讲礼仪,这样,默契和平衡将被打破,友爱关系将不复存在。每个人都盼望拥有自己的私密空间,朋友之间过于随便,就容易侵入这片禁区,从而引起冲突,造成隔阂。待友不敬,或许只是一件小事,却可能已埋下了毁坏性的种子。保持朋友密切关系的最好措施是往来有节,互不干涉,“久而敬之”才是天长地久。

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