I am not good at it. To do it well seems to me one of the most difficult things in the world, and probably seems so to you, too.

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问题 I am not good at it. To do it well seems to me one of the most difficult things in the world, and probably seems so to you, too.
To see a friend off from Waterloo to Vauxhall were easy enough. But we are never called on to perform that small feat. It is only when a friend is going on a longish journey, and will be absent for a long-ish time that we turn up at the railway station. The dearer the friend, and the longer the journey, and the longer the likely absence, the earlier do we turn up, and the more lamentably do we fail. Our failure is in exact ratio to the seriousness of the occasion, and to the depth of our feeling.
In a room or even on a door step, we can make the farewell quite worthily. We can express in our faces the genuine sorrow we feel. Nor do words fail us. There is no awkwardness, no restraint on either side. The thread of our intimacy has not been snapped. The leave-taking is an ideal one. Why not, then leave the leave-taking at that? Always, departing friends implore us not to bother to come to the railway station next morning. Always, we are deaf to these entreaties, knowing them to be not quite sincere. The departing friends would think it very odd of us if we took them at their word. Besides, they really do want to see us again. And that wish is heartily reciprocated. We duly turn up. And then, oh then, what a gulf yawns’. We stretch our arms vainly across it. We have utterly lost touch. We have nothing at all to say. We gaze at each other as dumb animals gaze at human beings. We make conversation—and such conversation! We know that these friends are the friends from whom we parted overnight. They know that we have not altered. Yet, on the surface, everything is different; and the tension is such that we only long for the guard to blow his whistle and put an end to the farce.

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答案 我不擅长送行。它可是我心目中这世上最难做好的事情之一。对此,你大概也心有同感。 送一位朋友从滑铁卢去渥克斯厅可以说是一件相当简单的事。但你从来就接不到这种轻松活儿。我们只有当朋友要远行,离去的时间又比较长久时,才被召唤亲赴车站送行。朋友交情越好,送的路程越远;朋友离去的时间越长,我们就越早到达车站,相应地,我们遭遇的失败也就越为惨烈。这种失败的程度恰恰与场合的正式度以及感情的深厚程度成正比。 屋内话别已十分体面,甚至在门前台阶也不错。我们脸上的表情书写着真切的忧伤。言语里透出恋恋不舍之情。主客双方不觉尴尬或拘谨。亲密友谊更是丝毫无损。如此的送别真可谓完美。可我们怎么就不懂到了这种程度就应该罢休呢?通常情况下,即将远行的友人们总是恳求我们次日早晨不要再赶到车站。但我们知道那不一定是真心话,便也就不听信那些劝说的话,还是奔向车站。假若真的听信了朋友们的话,并且照着做了,他们说不定心里还会责怪呢。何况,他们也确实希望能和我们再见上一面。于是我们也就按时到达,真诚地去回应朋友的愿望。但结果却,结果却,陡然生出一道鸿沟!我们伸手,可怎么也无法超越,谁也够不着谁。我们哑口无言,像愚笨的动物痴望人类一样面面相觑。我们“找些话题来说”——但哪里有什么话好说的!大家都心知肚明,离别之景昨夜就已上演了一遍。人还是昨晚的那些人,但从表面上看,所有的又都变了。气氛是如此紧张,我们都盼望着列车员赶紧鸣笛,及早结束这场闹剧。

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