Jack Every time you raise a hot-button issue, such as the in-laws or money, does your husband suddenly clam up? Take heart, m

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问题    Jack    Every time you raise a hot-button issue, such as the in-laws or money, does your husband suddenly clam up? Take heart, more than 80 percent of the time, it’ s the wife who brings up sticky marital issues, while the husband tries to avoid discussing them. This isn’ t a symptom of a troubled marriage—it is true in most happy marriages.    Lilian    I watched many couples fight about one major issue. After four years, 69 percent of these successfully married couples were still fighting about the same problem. When you marry, you automatically inherit your set of unresolvable relationship problems. If you married somebody else, you’ d have a different set.    Patrick    You’ll often hear that staying in a bad marriage is worse for everybody concerned—that getting divorced. That may be true if your home is so riddled with hostility it’ s like a war zone. But I found that 75 percent of couples who rated their marriages as miserable but stayed married were happy five years later.    Brandy    Every couple experiences disappointment as initial romance and passion fade and they discover all their differences. He doesn’ t do enough housework. She’ s too emotional. He watches too much TV. She’ s too lenient with the kids. We usually think the strongest marriages are those that survive major traumas, but frequently, it is those daily annoyances that eat away at a marriage.    Anthony    What if she is in corporate sales and he is a musician? She prizes safety and security while he longs for adventure? She loves watching football at home while he is a rover with a passion for sailing? Less resilient couples might see such dramatic differences as grounds for divorce. But paradoxically, it is this unbridled independence that holds marriage together.    Now match each of the persons with the appropriate statement.    Note: there are two extra statements.                                                                    Statements    [A] Deal with little things.     [B] Silence doesn’t spell trouble.     
[C] Take a leap of faith.     [D] Divorce is not the best solution.     
[E] We don’ t have to solve every problem.[F] Relive beautiful moments.[G] Love your differences.  
Lilian

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