Want happier, better-adjusted kids? Pay less attention to them, so【C1】______a family coach David Code. He says families centered

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问题     Want happier, better-adjusted kids? Pay less attention to them, so【C1】______a family coach David Code. He says families centered on children create anxious,【C2】______parents and demanding, spoiled kids.
    Mr. Code says spouses too often【C3】______from communicating with each other by staying late at work, turning on the TV, —or interacting with the kids【C4】______. What could be wrong with focusing on the children? Two things, he says: First, it becomes harder to respect and【C5】______the boundaries that shape a child’s【C6】______, so he simply haunts (纠缠) his parents【C7】______he gets his way. Future bosses and spouses may not be so patient with this behavior. Second, we put【C8】______pressure on our children to fulfill our【C9】______needs, which may lead to the child【C10】______out.
    Working to create a great marriage, you should not let the fight-or-flight response【C11】______your passion for each other, help kids to learn self-reliance and【C12】______, Mr. Code says. Instead of trying to create perfect childhoods for our kids by making them the【C13】______of our universe, we should concentrate on creating a good marriage. Then the rest falls into【C14】______. In my family, I feel like we’ve【C15】______a good balance with our daughter and son, who turn 7 and 4 next month. We make sure to find time for silly, creative play with the kids. But we’ve also【C16】______down a rule that the kids cannot【C17】______into our bedroom before 7 a. m. on weekdays and 7: 30 at weekends, and we【C18】______that they’re now able to engage【C19】______enough self-directed play that we can spend some time just【C20】______with each other.
【C4】

选项 A、besides
B、instead
C、furthermore
D、moreover

答案B

解析 副词辨义题。后面一句提到“那么,一味关注孩子有什么坏处呢?”,所以此处讲的是夫妻过多关注孩子的行为。此句意为“为了逃避与另一半互动,夫妻二人常常加班,耗到很晚,或是一直守在电视机跟前,或是只跟孩子交流”,所以instead“反而”符合文意。besides,furthermore和moreover均意为“而且,此外”,与文意不符,故排除。
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