For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write an essay entitled The Skills of Giving Advice by commenting on the saying, "G

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问题 For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write an essay entitled The Skills of Giving Advice by commenting on the saying, "Giving advice is sometimes only showing our wisdom at the expense of others. " You should write at least 150 words but no more than 200 words.

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答案 The Skills of Giving Advice People love to give advice to other people. It is a way of sharing experience and establishing authority. However, just as the saying goes, "Giving advice is sometimes only showing our wisdom at the expense of others.", so we must pay attention to the skills when offering advice. First of all, we should respect those who ask for our advice. People turn to us for help when they respect us and trust our wisdom. So we should return their respect when giving them a hand. Secondly, we should remain modest in front of these people. The fact that we offer others advice doesn’t necessarily mean we are superior to them. A humble attitude must be adopted at all times because one day, we may also need a favor from others. Last but not least, we should refrain from forcing others to follow our advice. Whether our advice is accepted or not, we should respect other people’s final decision. Therefore, to some extent, it is an art to give advice. Only by using appropriate methods can we be good at this.

解析     这是一篇议论文,主要讨论的是提建议的技巧。
    第一段阐述人们喜欢给别人建议,以分享经历、建立权威,但给建议的初衷是为对方考虑,要特别注意技巧。
    第二段从三个方面论述了给建议应讲究的技巧。第一,尊重寻求建议的人。别人找我们是因为尊重我们,相信我们的才智;相应地,我们伸出援手时也要回以尊重。第二,我们在这些人面前要谦虚。我们给别人意见不代表我们高人一等,必须时刻谦逊,有一天我们也可能需要别人的帮助。第三,不要要求别人对我们言听计从。不管他们接不接受我们的建议,都要尊重别人的决定。
    第三段总结全文。给建议是一种艺术,方法适当才能做好。本段最后一句为Only引导的倒装句。
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