首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
专升本
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most importan
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most importan
admin
2018-06-22
34
问题
I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention, and especially if it’ s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but receive them. Listen to what they’ re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves of our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of simple saying "I’m so sorry" when someone is in pain.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story people often interrupted to tell her that they once had something just like that happening to them. Her pain became a story about themselves. Eventually she stopped talking to most people. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
I have even learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the handkerchiefs, until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down, to take them out of their experience of sadness. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. But now I know that a loving silence often has far more power to heal than the kindest words.
If you hand a handkerchief to someone crying, you may ______.
选项
A、hurt his feelings
B、make him embarrassed
C、encourage him to continue to cry
D、stop him from letting out his sorrow
答案
D
解析
推理判断题。从第三段第二句中的“…until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down,to take them out of their experience of sadness.”可知,这样做是在试图阻止他们排解忧伤。故选D。
转载请注明原文地址:https://jikaoti.com/ti/BIBGFFFM
本试题收录于:
英语题库普高专升本分类
0
英语
普高专升本
相关试题推荐
Accordingtosociologists,thereareseveraldifferentwaysinwhichapersonmaybecomerecognizedastheleaderofasocialgr
Inthepastdecades,thefarmsoftheworldhavesucceededinproducingenoughfoodtofeed______alloftheplanet’speople.
WhenIwasyounger,Ithoughtthatboysandgrownmenshouldn’tcry.Tearswereasignofbeingweak,【C1】______amanisn’tsuppo
—Imustapologizefor______themeetingaheadoftime.—That’sallright.
WhileIwaswaitingtoenterauniversity,Isawinanewspaperateacherjob【C1】______ataschoolabouttenmilesfromwhereI
Initsearlyhistory,Chicagohadfloodsfrequently,especiallyinthespring,makingthestreetssomuddythatpeople,horses,
Peterhasplannedto______somemoneyeverymonthsothathecanbuyausedcarnextyear.
LetmetellyouastoryaboutBertandMildredBumbridge,whousedtobevery【C1】______Forexample,Mildredwouldforgettocook
Peterhasplannedto______somemoneyeverymonthsothathecanbuyausedcarnextyear.
Thenewlawwillcomeinto______onthedayitispassed.
随机试题
从所给的四个选项中选择最合适的一个填入问号处,使之呈现一定的规律性:
A、Calltheorganizersoftheactivities.B、Cometotheclubinperson.C、Visitthewebsiteoftheclub.D、Getabrochureofthe
在工艺管道流程图中,仪表位号的第一个字母表示()。
中国某公司从美国纽约装运一批货物到我国某海港,经海关人员检查发现部分货物因受雨淋已发生霉变,另外还有严重短量。该运输合同中注明投保的是水渍险,对这种情况保险公司应如何处理______。
某修造船厂发生一起火灾事故。该厂修船船坞几天前有一艘外国船籍的油船(约9万t)入坞,更换侧罐的外板和中央罐的船底外板。事故发生当天,准备更换其中的左弦3号侧罐(长约40m、宽约10m、高约20m)的外板。上午在罐内装配脚手架,然后由10个人开始对罐
下列节气反应温度变化的有()。
分区拣货法分为()。
Foraquarterofacentury,surveysofreadinghabitsbytheNationalfortheArts(NEA),afederally-fundedbody,havebeenfav
将高级语言编写的程序翻译成机器语言程序,所采用的两种翻译方式是
A、Violenceontelevision.B、Transportationinthecity.C、Thehistoryoftransportation.D、Bureaucracyinthecity.B
最新回复
(
0
)