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The First Four Minutes When do people decide whether or not they want to become friends?During their first four minutes toge

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问题                         The First Four Minutes
    When do people decide whether or not they want to become friends?During their first four minutes together, according to a book by Dr. Leonard Zunin. In his book, Contact : The first four minutes , he offers this advice to anyone interested in starting new friendships :【T1】______. A lot of people’s whole lives would change if they did just that.
    You may have noticed that average person does not give his undivided attention to someone he as just met. 【T2】______If anyone has ever done this to you, you probably did not like him very much.
    When we are introduced to new people, the author suggests, we should try to appear friendly and self-confident. In general, he says, "People like people who like themselves. "
    On the other hand, we should not make the other person think we are too sure of ourselves. It is important to appear interested and sympathetic, realizing that the other person has his own needs, fears, and hopes.
    Hearing such advice, one might say, "But I’m not a friendly, self-confident person. That’ s not my nature. It would be dishonest for me to at that way. "
    【T3】______We can become accustomed to any changes we choose to make in our personality.
    "It is like getting used to a new car. It may be unfamiliar at first, but it goes much better than the old one. "
    But isn’ t it dishonest to give the appearance of friendly self-confidence when we don’ t actually feelthat way?Perhaps, but according to Dr. Zunin, "total honest" is not always good for social relationships, especially during the first few minutes of contact. There is a time for everything , and a certain amount of play-acting may be best for the first few minutes of contact with a stranger. That is not the time to complain about one’s health or to mention faults one finds in other people. It is not the time to tell the whole truth about one’s opinions and impressions.
    【T4】______For a husband and wife or a parent and child, problems often arise during their first four minutes together after they have been apart. Dr. Zunin suggests that these first few minutes together be treated with care. If there are unpleasant matters to be discussed, they should be dealt with later.
    The author says that interpersonal relations should be taught as a required course in every school, along with reading, writing, and mathematics. 【T5】______That is at least as important as how much we know.
A. In reply, Dr. Zunin would claim that a little practice can help us feel comfortable about changing our social habits.
B. Much of what has been said about strangers also applies to relationships with family members and friends.
C. In his opinion, success in life depends mainly on how we get along with other people.
D. Every time you meet someone in a social situation, give him your undivided attention for four minutes.
E. He keeps looking over the other person’s shoulder, as if hoping to find someone more interesting in another part of the room.
F. He is eager to make friends with everyone.  
【T2】
选项
答案E
解析 句意：他不停地往对方身后看，好像要在房间里找一个更有意思的人似的。前文“…doesnot give his undivided attention”提到一些人没有全神贯注地注意他初次见到的人，本处则进一步说明这种人的表现如何，而下文也明确说出这种表现让人很不喜欢，句中的this即是指代应填入的内容，故此可推断这种行为应该是不礼貌，让人喜欢的，只有E项合适。故本题选E。
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