首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
All parents hope for a prosperous, happy and secure future offspring. However, should they design their children’s future especi
All parents hope for a prosperous, happy and secure future offspring. However, should they design their children’s future especi
admin
2016-06-30
38
问题
All parents hope for a prosperous, happy and secure future offspring. However, should they design their children’s future especially when it comes to the lifetime decisions? There are a host of different opinions held by different individuals. The following are opinions from both sides. Read the excerpts carefully and write your response in about 300 words, in which you should:
1. summarize briefly the opinions from both sides:
2. give your comment.
Marks will be awarded for content relevance, content sufficiency, organization and language quality. Failure to follow the above instructions may result in a loss of marks.
Parents
Parents should help children design their future by encouraging them to set high goals. This is because high parental expectations tend to have a potential effect on a child’s academic performance and professional achievement. The words and behaviors of parents definitely have a deep influence on children, helping build their own beliefs. Those beliefs, in turn, then determine their habitats and emotions and, ultimately, their lives for better or for worse.
From birth to the moment a child controls his own destiny, parents are always there, teaching them all the intricacies of life. So this bond of love and affection will give parents more leverage to decide everything pertaining to the welfare of their children. On the one hand, parents are in a better position to know and care about their children. On the other hand, children often have no clear ideas about what their true interests and passions are and thus they can be very prone to making wrong decisions. Hence, deciding their future should be in the hands of parents. Besides, parents endowed with experience and wisdom can look out for potential problems and make choices.
Children
Xiao Mei of Tianjin University: I strongly contend that parents should never plan their children’s future. I’ve seen many people taking a job in a field that pays well but that they don’t like. If you’re not allowed to challenge yourself to live to your own edge and create a life you truly enjoy, then you will live a miserable life and your potential to success will be limited due to lack of passion. Furthermore, parents often tend to want their children to be like them or do something because they never had a chance to. Eventually children have become a means to achieve their parents’ unfulfilled goals. Nevertheless, it’s not the parents’ life but the children’s.
Han Meng of Shenzhen University: Parents should allow children to learn through failures or mistakes. Protecting or caging a child is preventing him from exploring and learning the world during the critical growth period. That’s how his wholesome development of the mind occurs. If parents try to control a child’s decisions, the child should be brave enough to break away and not to confide in his parents. By offering support even while gently saying they think the decision isn’t wise, parents earn trust. I always listen to my mother’s advice and respect her opinions, but in the end I have to learn by doing what I think is right, even if it may be not.
Write your response on ANSWER SHEET FOUR.
选项
答案
Should Parents Determine Their Children’s Future? Should parents determine the future of their children? Some parents believe that high parental expectations are associated with high academic and professional achievement and they are responsible for motivating children by helping them set high expectations. They also hold that they are fully aware of their children’s needs and their deep affection entitles them to make decisions for their children. However, children argue that some parents, paving the way for children’s future success, leave few chances for them to deal with problems by themselves. Moreover, curbing children’s desires or independence would be detrimental and might invite rebellious attitudes. In my opinion, it is universally true that parents have rich life experience, wisdom and knowledge which are assets to their children and they do exert a strong impact on their children’s growth. But a fact we can’t ignore is that being over controlling is sure to stir up resentment and inhibit their children’s academic or career growth. As a matter of fact, the way a child learns how to make decisions is by making decisions, not by following directions. Therefore, parents need to let go a little bit and let their kids live their own lives when they are instinctively more mature and can think out the consequences of certain things. Furthermore, parents can also help filter choices through questions and research. Considering that, there is no doubt that parents are the best candidates to discuss career outlook with their children before they choose a college major, a field of graduate study or a first job. All in all, I should say that the decision, no matter how big or small, lies in the children themselves and only in this way can they learn to make decisions on their own and then deal with the consequences.
解析
通过审题可知,题目指出父母都希望孩子的未来能幸福、成功,但父母是否应该为子女做决定,尤其是关系到人生大事的决定。在写作时,第一段简要总结文中给出的父母和孩子的观点;第二段重点阐述自己对这一话题的观点与看法:首先父母不能过分干涉孩子的生活,其次当孩子有能力自己做决定时,父母要学会放手,同时父母可以借助一些问题和调查帮助孩子缩小选择范围;结尾段总结自己的观点。
转载请注明原文地址:https://jikaoti.com/ti/eJFYFFFM
0
专业英语八级
相关试题推荐
Bodylanguageisnotlanguageinthestrictsenseofthewordlanguage;itisinfact,abroadtermforformsofcommunication
Therearemanywaysinwhichthephenomenaoflanguageandcultureareintimatelyrelated.Allphenomenaareuniquetohumansan
Whileattendingahighereducationsystemoffersmanypositives,italsoofferscertainnegatives.Onenegativeisthefacthigh
Theprevioussectionhasshownhowquicklyarhymepassesfromoneschoolchildtothenextandillustratesthefurtherdifferenc
Theprevioussectionhasshownhowquicklyarhymepassesfromoneschoolchildtothenextandillustratesthefurtherdifferenc
InBritain,______wasthehighestofficeroftheCrownandpresidedintheHouseofLords.
PASSAGETHREEWhydidthecoastguardcomeouttohelptheauthor?
奶奶吃“鲜”,现在想起来意味深长。在那样一个遥远的乡村,奶奶的生命与大自然紧密相连,天增岁月人增寿。她以感恩的心情,真情面对土地上的每一种果实的每一次成熟。深刻领会大自然无比的恩惠,年迈的她活得谦恭执着而又鲜活。与居住在乡间的奶奶相比,现代的都市
(1)TheEuropeanUnionhasbeenoperatingin20officiallanguagessincetennewmemberstatesjoinedthelegislativebodylasty
乔羽的歌大家都熟悉。但他另外两大爱好却鲜为人知,那就是钓鱼和喝酒。晚年的乔羽喜爱垂钓,他说:“有水有鱼的地方大都是有好环境的,好环境便会给人好心情。我认为最好的钓鱼场所不是舒适的、给你准备好饿鱼的垂钓园,而是那极其有吸引力的大自然野外天成的场所。”钓鱼是一
随机试题
A、丁溴东莨菪碱B、溴丙胺太林C、氯化琥珀胆碱D、苯磺酸阿曲库铵E、氢溴酸东莨菪碱()分子中没有季铵盐结构。
患者女,38岁,医生诊断为卵巢癌,今日手术,护士协助患者床上翻身活动应在手术后()
国家建设主管部门为了加强建筑工程质量管理,规范建筑工程施工质量的验收,保证工程质量,制定相应的标准和规范。这些标准、规范主要是从技术角度,为保证房屋建筑各行业专业工程的()而提出的一般性要求。
A企业采用分期收款方式销售商品,2004年5月10日发出商品2000件,每件售价100元,成本为每件80元,增值税率17%。合同约定,分4次付款,产品发出时付款70%,以后每个月初各付款10%,则S企业5月份应结转的主营业务成本为()元。
在到期日或到期日之前,以固定价格购进一种资产的权利合约是()。
运输结点具有()。这一功能将各个运输线路联结成一个系统,以便各个线路通过结点变得更为贯通,并且通过转换使运输更好地衔接在一起。
执行下面程序,单击Command1按钮,则在窗体上显示的第一行内容是 (8) ,第二行内容是 (9) ,最后一行内容是 (10) 。OptionExplicitPrivateSubCommand1_Click()DimaAsInteger
下列选项中,不属于“软件危机”产生的主要原因的是()。
Theyignoredhim,despitehisrepeated______thathewasnotonthesceneofmurderthatevening.
Onetypeofpersonthatiscommoninmanycountriesistheonewhoalwaystriestodoaslittleaspossibleandtogetasmuchi
最新回复
(
0
)